There comes a point in life when we pause, reflect, and ask ourselves what truly matters. Amid all the achievements, routines, and expectations, one truth remains: we all need someone to share life with. As someone who is emotionally ready and practically prepared for marriage, I am writing this message with sincerity, clarity, and hope. I am seeking a marriage proposal (rishta) — not just for the sake of marriage itself, but for a meaningful, balanced, and respectful partnership.
This is not a plea. It is not desperation. It is not a display of weakness. Rather, it is an act of strength and self-awareness. I am proud to acknowledge that I am ready for marriage, and I see no shame in expressing it openly. In fact, I believe that this kind of honesty is the first step towards finding someone equally genuine and mature. I know what I want, and I’m ready to meet someone who also values purpose, partnership, and peace.
I envision marriage as a team — two people who complement each other in strengths, support each other in weaknesses, and build a home rooted in love, trust, and shared goals. I am not looking for someone to rescue me or complete me. I am complete as I am — emotionally independent, mentally stable, and spiritually aware. What I seek is a partner with whom I can grow even more, someone I can support and be supported by through all stages of life.
My ideal match is someone who values communication, kindness, and integrity. A person who doesn’t shy away from responsibilities, who believes in respect over ego, and who knows how to balance both deen and dunya. He doesn’t have to be rich or highly educated in a worldly sense — but he must be rich in character, educated in emotional intelligence, and open to learning and evolving through life.
As for myself, I come with no dramatic story, no hidden baggage, and no unrealistic demands. I believe in keeping things simple, transparent, and respectful. I value family, faith, and meaningful connections. I try to live my life with gratitude and dignity, and I look for the same in my future spouse. I am not looking for a flashy wedding or a show-off lifestyle — just a calm, grounded, and joyful life with someone who is serious about marriage and ready for commitment.
It is important to talk about values, because looks fade and situations change. What remains is a person’s intention, behavior, and consistency. I believe in small gestures over big statements. I believe in forgiveness, mutual compromise, and solving problems together instead of blaming one another. I believe in growing together — not growing apart.
I’ve also realized that searching for a rishta is not just about “finding someone” — it’s about preparing yourself to be someone worthy. I’ve taken time to reflect on myself, my past, my habits, and my patterns. I have worked on my emotional maturity, my communication skills, and my spiritual connection. I’m not perfect, but I am conscious. And I want to be with someone who is also trying to be better every day, not someone who assumes marriage will solve everything magically.
One of the things I’ve observed is how rishta culture often puts pressure on the wrong things. People focus on salary packages, fair skin, or how “settled” someone is, as if human beings are products. But I believe in looking beyond these boxes. Compatibility is not measured in income brackets or family status — it’s in how two people listen to each other, how they show up when things are difficult, how they pray for each other’s peace even when they’re apart.
If you’re reading this and you’re someone — or you know someone — who is looking for a real relationship based on faith, friendship, and future-building, then I invite you to connect respectfully. Let’s remove the fear from these conversations. Let’s be honest, kind, and intentional. I don’t want dozens of proposals. I just want one that feels right. One that is backed by genuine effort and emotional readiness.
Yes, families matter. Yes, compatibility matters. But at the end of the day, it is the individuals who will live that marriage every single day. That’s why emotional compatibility, similar values, and aligned intentions should come first — and the rest can follow.
My family supports me wholeheartedly in this journey. We are simple, God-fearing people who believe in good character over flashy status. We don’t believe in dowry, nor in extravagant demands. We believe that when two good people come together with clean hearts and faith in Allah, the rest will work itself out, InshaAllah.
I know the journey won’t be easy. Marriage is not a fairytale. It takes work, sacrifice, and continuous effort. But I am ready for that. I am ready to share joys, face challenges, build a home, raise a family, and become a better version of myself with someone I trust. Someone I laugh with, cry with, and pray with.
If you’re reading this and you’re also looking — really looking — then maybe this is your sign. Maybe you’ve been praying for someone like me, just as I’ve been praying for someone like you. Maybe we’ve both been waiting, growing, and preparing — and this is our moment to take a step forward, with grace and intention.
In conclusion, I want to say this: it’s okay to say “I want to get married.” It’s okay to be clear about your needs and hopes. It’s okay to expect respect, honesty, and love. We all deserve that. And we all deserve to find someone who sees us — not just with their eyes, but with their heart. So here I am, open to meeting the right person, in the right way, at the right time. And I pray it happens with barakah, wisdom, and mutual understanding.